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Support & groups

Support groups: open or full, and when the next one starts.

Six weekly groups, one in Spanish. Ninety minutes, a facilitator, and nobody who has to speak. Right now: 4 of 6 groups open to new people.

Where a group meets is never on this page. Call the helpline and say which group; the facilitator tells you where. Childcare is in the next room for the evening and Saturday groups.

A plain meeting room with eight simple chairs in a loose circle, a low table with a box of tissues and a jug of water, a sheer curtain and daylight, a potted plant in the corner.
A group room before the group. Chairs, water, tissues, and a room whose address is given by a person, not a page.
Every group

This term

Tuesday evening group

Open · join any week

Tuesday, 6 to 7:30 p.m. · in English · Adults, at any stage

The open group. Come once or come for a year; nobody has to speak. Childcare in the next room.

To join: call the helpline and say which group. The facilitator tells you where it meets.

Grupo de apoyo

Open · join any week

Wednesday, 6 a 7:30 p.m. · en español · Adultos, en español

Un grupo semanal en español, con una facilitadora que habla español. Cuidado de niños en la sala de al lado.

To join: call the helpline and say which group. The facilitator tells you where it meets.

Thursday daytime group

Open · join any week

Thursday, 10 to 11:30 a.m. · in English · Adults who cannot come in the evening

The same open group, in the morning, for people whose evenings are watched.

To join: call the helpline and say which group. The facilitator tells you where it meets.

After the order

Full · next starts 2 Nov

Monday, 5:30 to 7 p.m. · in English · People who have a protective order, or are deciding about one

Eight weeks with the legal advocate: what the order does and does not do, court dates, what to do when it is broken.

Full for now. Call the helpline to be told first when the next one starts; where it meets is never on this page.

Parenting after abuse

Open · starts 10 Oct

Saturday, 10 to 11:30 a.m. · in English · Parents and carers of children who saw or heard it

Ten weeks. What children carry, what helps, and what to say when they ask. Children's room open next door.

To join: call the helpline and say which group. The facilitator tells you where it meets.

Money on your own

Full · we keep a list

Wednesday, 12 to 1 p.m. · in English · Anyone whose money was controlled

Six lunchtimes: a bank account in your own name, credit that was run up in your name, benefits, a budget for a household of one or five.

Full for now. Call the helpline to be told first when the next one starts; where it meets is never on this page.

Open, full and the next start date are edited by staff on one sheet, and the home page reads the same sheet. A full group keeps a list, and the people on it hear first.

What a group is like

Ninety minutes, once a week

290

sessions held last year, across the six groups. Attendance is never counted by name, so the number is of evenings, not of people.

A facilitator opens and closes; the middle belongs to whoever wants it. Nobody is asked to speak, nobody is asked what happened, and nothing said in the room is written down. The Spanish-language group runs the same way, in Spanish, with a Spanish-speaking advocate.

Groups are free. If you are not sure which one fits, the helpline advocate will say which they would try first.

A pothos and a small geranium in terracotta pots on a white-painted window sill, a sheer curtain and a garden blurred outside.
The group room’s window. Somebody waters the plants on the day the group meets.

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The shelter’s address is never published, on purpose. Office visits by appointment through the helpline.

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